What I took away from Chapters 5 & 6:
Talks about how adults often revert to Plan A, and most of the time it is because they had no true intentions of doing Plan B. Often times adults are not aware of what to say., especially as they begin trying to clarify a kid's concerns and simply returned to something more familiar. Adults are usually focused on their own concerns vs. than the kids concerns.
-Drilling Sheets
Empathy stage
represents a great opportunity to get things sorted out. (a kid may be confused about his/her concerns; it may the first time anyone's ever asked him/her what his concerns are, so the info may not be on tip of their tongue.)
Plan B supports this stage by focusing on clarifying and addressing the kids concerns as you clarify and address your own concerns.
Perfunctory Empathy- The tendency to rush through the Empathy strap quickly as possible, which has the effect of preventing adults from understanding the kids concerns or perspective.
talks about vague concerns leading to vague solutions.
You are not done with the Empathy stage until you have a clearest idea possible understanding of the kid's concerns or perspective.
This is the information-seeking mode.
The author supports this with a few different scenarios that focus on
Missing Steps, Dueling Solutions, and Steps Out Of Order, and Overreliance on Emergency B:
- Recess Concerns (Adult & Student Tanya)
- Circle time (Adult & Child)
- Partnering with classmates (Adult & Student Elena)
- Socializng concerns (Adult & Ahmad)
-Testing Concerns (Rodney & Adult)
Proactive B vs. Emergency B:
Proactive B
- takes place under planned conditions, so you have time to prepare. It takes place under a calmer, less heated circumstances so the participants are more capable of info-sharing and reason discussion. It doesn't take place in front of the entire class, so it doesn't add pressure of being the center of attention and the work of the other kids isn't being disrupted.
The author writes about not wanting to abuse the use of Emergency B because you will end up doing more planning than you will actually need.
Plan C- Emergent circumstances
- temporary expectations to ensure that the other kids stay focused on the task at hand, and then return to the problem a few minutes/hours later under more ideal circumstances. (like in the Rodney/Adult scenario.)
The text is then supported by a Q & A section, which I like. It supports the teachers (adults) concerns and tries to give strategies that will be very helpful in my own classroom.
Bumps In the Road... The Story Continues
I am happy that Mrs. Woods and Joey are becoming more successful at working together, which will support the needs of both- Joey & and the classroom community. The use of the signals, and communication seem to be a good start. Dr .Bridgman notices that if Joey can tell Mrs. Woods his concerns or confusion through signals it will help Ms. Lowell as well. Ms. Lowell seems very involved and concern about Joey's progress. She is willing to re-arrange her schedule at work to meet with the staff, and Dr, Bridgman. I like how Mrs. Woods is now realizing that Joey is actually a normal child ,just with a few challenges. She discusses things over with her husband, and he seems to think she is giving Joey special treatment. I believe Mrs. Woods is attempting to use her teaching philosophies to help her work with Joey. As she states to her husband, Joey has been suspended many of times before- that communication is aiding towards a new relationship between them. She is discovering that simple assignments are not that "simple" to Joey. After talking with Joey- upon his arrival the next day she goes through his history folder and uses an completed assignment to support the days lesson. After a successful two weeks in Mrs. Woods classroom, Mr. Owens (the sub) pushed Joey to the edge, which caused Joey to walk out of class. His aggressive behavior provoked Joey to response by punching the locker. He wasn't suspended this time, and was able to explain what happened. It seems like Mr. Owens was using
Plan A instead of
B, which was interfering with the hard work that Mrs. Woods developed the last 2 weeks.
Icing On The Cake
More focus on Plan B, and making sure nothing happened in your first attempt at Plan B to decrease the kid's receptivity to your next attempt.
- Refers back to chapter 2; transition scenario( Teacher & Kelvin.)
- Direct Skills Training With A Collaborative Twist (Sann & Adult)
- Solving Problems Collaboratively With Kids With Lagging Language Processing And Communication Skills (Communicating About Unsolved Problems)
using ALSUP to identify unsolved problems, now you must find a way to get the students to communicate them. It proves some models to support generating communication and solutions.
- Differented Discipline
Q & A to support concerns and provide strategies.
(I stopped at "The Story Continues; Pg. 172)
Questions for Group:
1.) What was you reaction to how Mr. Owens (the substitute) handled things with Joey?
2.) Do you think he was reacting off of prior experience covering Mrs. Woods classroom?
3.) Do you think Joey's response was a reflection of Mr. Owens behavior?